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  • #2612

    Miss T
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    Hi,

    I am 23 weeks pregnant recently my partner has been distant,he does not want me to touch him or have sex with me he is always tired I suspected that he is cheating went through his cell and found nasty whatsapp messages with woman and chating to woman on facebook…I have been blaming myself all along since I have put on some weight i felt I dont look attractive for him anymore please advise i am not sure how to handle this confrontation does not realy help coz he apologises and do the same thing all over again,is it wise to call the elders and show them the messges or must I just leave trust is all gone!!!

    #2613

    Jules
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    It must just be the absolute worst thing in the world to discover your man is cheating and you are pregnant.  I am so sorry.

    Do I understand correctly, it’s not the first time you have caught him out?  If he apologises, and just does it all over again, I would just quietly, without any fuss or ado pack my things and go.  No confrontation, no explanation. 

    Just a word of advice, in terms of men.  Never, ever, ever until the day you die, do you rely on a man.   Make sure that you get as educated as you can, get the best job you can, earn as much money as possible, buy your own house, car etc.  Never rely on a man to support you and never ever be anything other than completely independent.  At the end of the day, the only person you can rely on is yourself.   No matter how sweet his words, or how he promises to take care of you and never leave and bla bla utter rubbuish that comes out of his mouth, you make flippen sure that you can support yourself if the relationship ends for whatever reason.  That includes death, because I have seen this too. The provider dies, and the family is destitute.   This is true whether you are single and living together or  married – it does not matter.  Everything in life is so disposable today, that includes marriage.  Look after yourself.   Make YOU the priority, then your kids, then everyone else. 

    Good luck.  I wish you all the best.

    #2616

    ms t
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    It must be hard being cheated on while preggies. My motto is stay away from your partners phone, I know easier said than done but try it. I was a snooper actually a PI until I realized that at some point you need your privacy or u being you.

    Next time don’t confront when you not ready to take a bolt step( leave him) cuz all you doing you showing him that you can stand fr his b****it. By now he knows that you won’t do anything when he is caught.

    #2620

    Miss T
    Participant

    Thank you so much for the advise,

     

    #2707

    Anonymous

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    #2985

    Zizo
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    Miss T what happend then,is your partner still cheating or did you leave him?I am also pregnent and my partner is having an affair with his ex girlfriend……Plz reply

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