Hi everyone…
I have a Major problem… My man has more mood swings than me…
He has problems at work, and we hardly speak during the week because he says he wants time for himself, then on weekends when i sleep over he plays with his Air rifle and prefers to do other stuff than to spend time with me…
I have told him how i feel and still nothing….
He enjoys fishing and i enjoy golf, but he has never offered to do what i like…
its been fishing for the past 11 months… And since we have been together, i have spent my whole pay on him….
he cant even buy me a dam chocolate and he earns R 5000 more than me…
he makes me feel insecure by emailing other girls for “stuff for me” BUT I never received any gift as such… Then he looks at girls in a weird way…
He neglects me and i suffer from major depression…
He shouts at me like i am his child and he makes me feel pathetic and useless…
What am I supposed to do with him…
Please help…
He is taking you for a ride. Get rid of him as he is just using and abusing you.
It is hard to do that, he is the first guy that i actually see a future with,…
i have tried every time to make things work…
but he just wants to walk away every time
Hi Tazzy
I agree with Ansiew. He is just using you. You should leave him immediately. He is just using you and don’t really care about you. Don’t waste your time with someone who don’t appreciate you.
I he is not prepared to sit down and discuss the problem, then he is not interested.
I have tried everything and it will be really difficult to walk away…
Do you guy think if i try to to take him to Counseling and if there is no progress, then i can leave him?
If he is prepared to go for counselling.
His Theory is men dont talk about their feelings…
So if his not prepared then it is time to walk away…
If I were in your shoes – Yes walk away and find someone who loves and cares enough to talk about his feelings and not treat you like dirt. As for using your money – that is also out.
Maybe it is for the best…
But maybe 1 more try is needed…
i hope he wakes up before its too late…
For your sake I hope it works. Best of luck and please believe me I know what you are going through. I know you will find someone worthy of you.
I hope so too, an i hope that this is not the end of something i worked so hard for…
thank you for all your support…
Hi Guys im so sorry to post on this topic. Please can somone tell me if i need advise on an issue where do i send my story/comment to. I need advise from this forum.
Hi Justme, depending on what subject, choose a forum and start a topic. I find it quite easy and I am not much of a one for computers.
Carol 3 months, 2 weeks ago.
